Welcome to skji!

skji is a small community built on consent, unity, love, and trust
(yes, that spells "cult", i thought that was funny)

since we're mostly a friend community, we're very light on moderation. so, to fend off bad actors, as well as to keep the circle small and comfortable, we have a simple join requirement in place.

either an existing active member can vouch for you, which fast tracks you directly into the community
or you can fill out this survey, which takes under 3 minutes, and we'll figure out whether skji is the right place for you based on your responses :)

if you're unsure about any of the questions, feel free to dm me (@ravy)!

hope to hear from you soon!

cw: politics

tick all of the statements you agree with

transgender rights

if a friend asked me to use "they"/"them" for them, i would

there are exactly two genders

intentionally calling a trans person by their previous name is unacceptable

if a friend asked me to use "it"/"its" for them, i would

only trans people who medically transition should be allowed to change their name

only adults should be allowed gender-affirming care

everyone should be allowed to choose their own name and pronouns

being trans is a modern trend; trans people didn't exist most of history

world views

both the left and the right wing are wrong, the best option is in the middle

capitalism is the only system that actually works

do what you want at home, but please keep it out of the public

parents always know what's best for their child

women earn less than men because they work less hard

climate change is real and man-made

polyamory is just an excuse for cheating

elon musk is doing an important job in protecting free speech

if you want to provide more nuance for any of your answers, feel free to use the space below

put as much or little detail as you want the more you write though, the easier it becomes for us to gauge your vibe

if you could be any animal (including fantasy ones), which one would you be?

imagine you could make a 20 second phone call to yourself at any point in your life (including the future)

when would you call?

what topic would you enjoy talking about for hours?

imagine you had the ability to send one thought to everyone on the planet.

these questions don't influence the status of your application

what would you like us to call you? nicknames in skji are lowercase and usually without special characters or spaces most people just use whatever they'd want to be called by a friend irl

which pronouns do you prefer?

are there any other words you'd like us to call you (or to avoid)?

these questions are optional, but really useful for us :)

what's your rough age?

how'd you find this server?

do you know anyone in skji?

where in the world do you live?

continent

africa

asia

europe

north america

oceania

south america

hiya, nice to meet you!

multiple choice

freeform

onboarding

census